(UN)OFFENDED

Is it just me, or does it seem like every day there is someone who is offended on social media?

While social media can be an easy way to connect with people, it can be a place where offense is easily taken on. That being said, are you looking to connect with people or are you looking to be offended by people?

In an interview with Carey Nieuwhof, Ed Stetzer said, “You can’t war at a people and reach a people at the same time.” Meaning, you can’t connect with people if you are also getting offended by them.

So next time someone on social media offends you, try this instead…

First, step away from the keypad. I mean it. Drop the phone and kick it towards me! James 1:19 reads, “Be slow to type” (or something like that).

Second, ask yourself, “Why does this offend me?” It could be that what the person posted was truly hurtful. However, it could also be that you are taking on an unnecessary offense. Proverbs 19:11 reads, “A person’s wisdom yields patience; it is to one’s glory to overlook an offense.” (NIV).

Finally, don’t post a response on a public thread. Instead, direct message the individual and ask them what they meant by their post. This will give you both the opportunity to share and understand. Matthew 18:15 reads, “If another believer sins against you, go privately and point out the offense. If the other person listens and confesses it, you have won that person back” (NLT). For me, these three steps have helped me take offense less and connect more. And if this post in any way offends you, then be sure to follow that last step.